25 Best Solo Travel Destinations for Black Gay Men in 2026 (Safe, Fun and LGBTQ-Friendly)
Guys, if there is anything you’ll know and learn from me by reading my blog is — I don’t deal with naysayers, drama, and bs when I travel. I really don’t have the time to deal with that any time but especially when I’m traveling. I generally want to do my own thing, or if I’m with someone else, I’m open to their opinions, too, but let’s be real… we’re NOT with the sh*ts over here. If you have an attitude — the first sight of it — I’m out and immediately checked out. LOL — I sound miserable, but I’m really not. I just feel like if you’re traveling all this way, why not make it luxe, fabulous, and hella gay.
My first trip abroad–to Thailand via China
So that’s why I generally travel alone. I love it. 10 years ago, I was supposed to go on a trip to Thailand and the gay friend of mine that I was going with canceled at the last minute. It was due to work. No hard feelings but that low key p*ssed me off. Like, how am I gonna make this work now? Baby, I said we going anyway. I got on that plane and trekked halfway around the world at 28 years old… NOT KNOWING JACK SHIT. But I made it work. I navigating all by myself by accident. Its amazing how powerful solo traveling can make you feel. How empowering it can be is truly remarkable. Now, I no longer or rarely travel with other people. Because I just can’t be bothered with other people’s insecurities, drama, or the classic cases of “I don’t wanna do that.”
That’s why I created this list. I want more people to be like me and travel the world FREELY, SAFELY, and go where were are fully SEEN.
With that being said, let’s dive purse (or luggage first) into this list hunnnnni.
When you’re a Black gay man traveling solo, the destination absolutely matters. We’re not just looking for pretty beaches and good food — we’re looking for safety, community, men who see us, and places where we don’t have to shrink or code-switch just to exist.
And trust me, after traveling through Mexico, South America, Europe, and Asia… I’ve learned which cities give what they need to give.
Below is the official Black Gay Boy Abroad “Yas Score™” List — where I break down 25 places Black gay men love to solo travel, why the galssss are flocking there, and what kind of vibe you can expect when you land.
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THE BLACK GAY BOY ABROAD YAS SCORE™
Here’s how we’ll be rating each of these cities, hunni… and as a plus, I’ll do you a solid, I’m going to link my FAVORITE hotels in each of these locations, so you can book directly through me (just an FYI, I do earn a small comission if you want to book through me and support the blog, I really appreciate y’all that do!)
★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling! — Queer heaven. You will not want to leave.
★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved — Beautiful, safe, social, and flirty.
★★★☆☆ Cute For a Weekend — Fun for a short trip but not my forever girl.
★★☆☆☆ She Tried — Effort was made but… the vibe is inconsistent.
★☆☆☆☆ Baby, No. — Absolutely not.
1. Puerto Vallarta, Mexico — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Puerto Vallarta isn’t just gay-friendly — it’s gay-saturated. From the beaches of Zona Romántica to the clubs on Lazaro Cárdenas, this city is built for community, safety, and connection. Black gay travelers love PV because we’re visible, welcomed, and desired here.
Here are my favorite hotels here:
Almar Resort Luxury LGBT Beach Front Experience – Luxury LGBTQ+ beachfront resort in Zona Romántica with a lively pool and social scene, perfect for meeting other travelers.
Piñata PV Hotel – Boutique hotel steps from gay bars and beach clubs in Zona Romántica with great vibes and personalized service.
Blue Chairs Beachfront Resort – Classic LGBTQ+ adults-only hotel right on the gay section of Playa Los Muertos, known for drag shows and beach community.
Casa Cupula – Upscale gay-owned boutique property offering privacy, pool lounging, and stunning sunset views near PV’s gay nightlife.
Even more GAY AF hotel options here.
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2. Mexico City — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Mexico City, Mexico
CDMX is a dream for food, culture, nightlife, and queer energy. It’s modern, artistic, progressive, and full of men. The vibe is intellectual meets spicy meets “oh, we’re dancing tonight.”
Hotel Geneve Mexico City – Historic, LGBTQ-welcoming hotel near Zona Rosa with classic charm and quick access to nightlife.
Hotel Arena - Adults Only – Budget-friendly adults-only spot that’s comfortable, clean, and perfect for solo travelers exploring Zona Rosa.
Even more GAY AF hotel options here.
3. Medellín, Colombia — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Medellín, Colombia
Surrounded by mountains, Medellín is cozy, affordable, and incredibly social. It’s the kind of place where Black gay men feel both safe and admired.
The Click Clack Hotel – Chic, artsy hotel loved by the international queer crowd.
The Charlee Hotel – Trendy rooftop and nightlife energy popular with gay travelers.
Los Patios Hostal Boutique – Social hostel great for meeting other travelers.
Hotel Park 10 – Upscale, quiet, and near popular nightlife zones.
4. Cartagena, Colombia — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Cartagena, Colombia
Think Afro-Colombian culture, warm weather, gorgeous rooftops, and nightlife with a pulse. Cartagena’s queer scene continues to grow and the energy here is flirtatious and fun.
Casa Belle Cartagena Hotel Boutique – Luxury boutique stay near nightlife with queer-friendly vibes.
Hotel Charleston Santa Teresa – Upscale property favored by LGBTQ+ travelers.
Bastión Luxury Hotel – Beautiful colonial-style hotel in the walled city.
Hotel Quadrifolio – High-end, intimate stay great for couples or solo relaxation.
5. Rio de Janeiro, Brazil — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Rio is sensual, vibrant, and overflowing with queer freedom. From Copacabana to Carnival, this city is a playground for queer travelers who want beauty, beach life, and men who appreciate a Black body.
Hotel Arpoador – Steps from Ipanema’s gay beach, perfect for sun + social.
Arena Ipanema Hotel – Modern beachfront and popular with the LGBTQ+ crowd.
Sol Ipanema Hotel – Overlooks Posto 9, the main gay beach area.
Emiliano Rio – Luxury beachfront pick with sleek design.
6. Salvador da Bahia, Brazil — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Salvador da Bahia, Brazil
If you’re looking for deep Afro-diaspora connection, Salvador is the one. The music, the culture, the spiritual energy — it’s magnetic. Black gay men feel deeply held here.
Fera Palace Hotel – Stylish, Afro-Brazilian-friendly design hotel near Pelourinho.
Zank by Toque Hotel – LGBTQ-welcoming boutique stay with ocean views.
Fasano Salvador – Luxury, historic hotel great for culture lovers.
Casa do Amarelindo – Gay-owned hotel in the heart of the historic center.
7. São Paulo, Brazil — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
São Paulo, Brazil
One of the biggest LGBTQ+ nightlife scenes in the world. SP is for the girls who like techno, drag, fashion, and men who stay out until 7AM.
Hotel Unique – Iconic architectural hotel popular with gay men during Pride.
Mercure São Paulo Jardins – In the heart of the gay neighborhood.
Renaissance São Paulo Hotel – Luxury stay near nightlife and bars.
Blue Tree Premium Paulista – Centrally located and very LGBTQ-friendly.
8. Cape Town, South Africa — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Cape Town, South Africa
Cape Town gives beaches, wine country, queer safety, and some of the most beautiful men you’ve ever seen. Black gay travelers feel both empowered and at home here.
The Glen Boutique Hotel – A famously gay-friendly hotel with a spa and lush pool deck.
The Winchester Boutique Hotel Cape Town Stylish seafront property loved by queer travelers.
THE GREY – Boutique option with rooftop bar near De Waterkant.
Garden Court Victoria Junction – Central and accessible for nightlife.
9. Johannesburg, South Africa — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Johannesburg, South Africa
Joburg is where culture, fashion, and nightlife collide. The queer community is outspoken, political, and proud — making it easy for solo travelers to connect.
Premium Stay in Central Johannesburg Cultural Heart – Trendy, design-driven stay in Maboneng, popular with creatives.
The Catalyst Hotel – Chic and LGBTQ-welcoming in a safe neighborhood.
The Peech Boutique Hotel – Eco-chic, calm, and stylish for solo travelers.
Radisson RED Rosebank – Near arts, restaurants, and queer-friendly spaces.
10. Accra, Ghana — ★★★☆☆ Cute For a Weekend (esp. December)
Accra, Ghana
While not openly queer, Accra’s diaspora celebrations during December are unmatched. Parties, private queer events, and heritage travel make it a bucket-list trip for many.
Kempinski Hotel Gold Coast City – Luxury and very discreetly queer-friendly.
Number One Oxford Street Hotel – Modern, upscale, and popular with international travelers.
Mövenpick Ambassador Hotel – Large hotel with a pool and laidback vibe.
Accra City Hotel – Affordable, central, and LGBTQ-welcoming.
11. Nairobi, Kenya — ★★★☆☆ Cute For a Weekend
Nairobi, Kenya
Creative, stylish, and growing fast. Nairobi has a discreet but real queer community, and Black gay travelers often rave about the kindness of locals.
Tribe Hotel – Trendy design hotel favored by the creative + queer community.
The Social House Nairobi – Hip, modern, and LGBTQ-friendly.
Radisson Blu Nairobi Arboretum – Safe, stylish, with a great pool area.
Ibis Styles Nairobi Westlands – Budget-friendly and close to nightlife.
12. Bangkok, Thailand — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Bangkok, Thailand
Bangkok is one of the most LGBTQ-friendly cities in the world. Silom Soi 4 feels like a queer Disneyland — and the affordability makes it perfect for longer stays. There used to be an incredible sauna/cruise spot here, called Babylon. I cried when I learned they closed. It was HUGE and incredible!!!! :(
Pullman Bangkok King Power– A luxurious, gay-friendly five-star hotel in central Bangkok that blends modern design with comfort and convenience.
Togayther Hostel – Social, affordable, and perfectly located for gay bars.
Tarntawan Hotel Surawong – Steps from Silom nightlife.
SO/ Bangkok – Luxe hotel with a strong LGBTQ+ following.
13. Phuket, Thailand — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Phuket, Thailand
Resorts, beaches, massages, and gay nightlife all in one place. Phuket gives vacation bae energy. Don’t forget to take a day trip to Phi Phi Islands for a REMARKABLE time!
CC’s Hideaway – LGBTQ-friendly boutique hotel in a serene hillside location.
The Shack Resort Phuket – Gay guesthouse in Patong, great for nightlife.
BYD Lofts Boutique Hotel – Highly rated stay near gay beach clubs.
Patong Mansion Hotel – Affordable and friendly with a good social vibe.
14. Bali (Canggu & Ubud), Indonesia — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Bali (Canggu & Ubud), Indonesia
Bali is the soft-life capital of Asia — yoga, nature, expats, and queer-friendly cafés everywhere. Great for Black gay men who want peace, reflection, and a new version of themselves.
The Slow – Stylish, queer-welcoming boutique hotel in Canggu.
ASTON Canggu Beach Resort – Popular with LGBTQ+ travelers for surf + sunset views.
Alaya Resort Ubud – Peaceful, spiritual retreat energy.
Element by Westin Ubud – Wellness-focused and queer-inclusive.
15. Tokyo, Japan — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Tokyo, Japan
Safe, clean, fashionable, and respectful. The Ni-chōme gay district is iconic, and Black gay travelers frequently describe Japan as surprisingly easy and welcoming.
Hotel Niwa Tokyo – Central, chic, and popular with queer travelers.
Shinjuku Granbell Hotel – Steps from Ni-chōme gay nightlife.
Citan Hostel – Trendy social hostel great for meeting people.
Hyatt Regency Tokyo – Comfortable and LGBTQ-welcoming.
16. Seoul, South Korea — ★★★☆☆ Cute For a Weekend
Seoul, South Korea
Seoul is stylish, fast-paced, and full of nightlife. Gay men love Itaewon and the overall energy of the city — but English is less common, so prepare accordingly.
Hamilton Hotel Itaewon – Located directly in the gay nightlife district.
Mondrian Seoul Itaewon – Boutique chic and very queer-friendly.
RYSE, Autograph Collection – Trendy, artsy, and popular with LGBTQ+ creatives.
17. Taipei, Taiwan — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Taipei, Taiwan
Taipei is one of Asia’s most openly LGBTQ cities. Pride is huge, the community is warm, and solo travelers feel incredibly safe here.
Hotel Éclat Taipei – Uber-stylish, LGBTQ-friendly boutique hotel.
Amba Taipei Ximending – In the heart of the city’s gay-friendly district.
Swiio Hotel Ximen – Sleek, modern, and steps from nightlife.
18. Manila, Philippines — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Manila, Philippines
Manila has one of the friendliest queer communities in Asia. Filipinos are warm, outgoing, and social — making this a great destination for solo travel.
The Henry Hotel Manila – Unique, artsy, and strongly queer-welcoming.
Seda Bonifacio Global City – Modern and located near nightlife.
The Peninsula Manila – Iconic luxury with LGBTQ+ clients.
The Picasso Boutique Residences – Stylish, creative, and welcoming.
19. Barcelona, Spain — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Barcelona, Spain
Barcelona is beach life, nightlife, queer festivals, and endless flirtation. Perfect for travelers who want both culture and chaos.
Axel Hotel Barcelona – The iconic gay hotel in Gayxample with a rooftop pool.
TWO Hotel Barcelona by Axel – Gay-focused modern hotel with great amenities.
Hotel Cram – Stylish, friendly, and near gay nightlife.
Room Mate Gerard – Trendy and very LGBTQ-positive.
20. Madrid, Spain — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Madrid, Spain
Tapas, wine, dancing, and the queer-centric neighborhood of Chueca. The men here are gorgeous, friendly, and open.
Axel Hotel Madrid – The city’s top gay hotel near Chueca.
Room Mate Oscar – Colorful, fun, and in the center of Madrid’s gay district.
NH Collection Madrid Gran Vía – Near bars, restaurants, and queer nightlife.
Dear Hotel Madrid – Rooftop pool with beautiful views and queer-friendly service.
21. London, UK — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
London, UK
Home to one of the largest Black queer communities in the world. London is multicultural, sexy, and filled with LGBTQ+ spaces.
Z Hotel Soho – Steps from queer bars and nightlife.
The Standard London – Ultra-stylish with a diverse, queer crowd.
The Hoxton Holborn – Popular with creatives and LGBTQ+ visitors.
W London – Glitzy, centrally located, and very gay-friendly.
22. Paris, France — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Paris, France
Paris is romance, fashion, poetry, and flirtation. Black gay men often feel desired here in ways they didn’t expect.
Hotel Marais Bastille – In the heart of Paris’s LGBTQ+ district.
Les Bains Paris – Iconic nightlife hotel loved by queer artists.
Hôtel Jules & Jim – Intimate boutique stay in a gay-friendly neighborhood.
Le Pavillon de la Reine – Luxury option with a quiet, romantic vibe.
23. Atlanta, USA — ★★★★★ Full YASSS Darling!
Atlanta, Georgia, USA
The Black gay capital of the U.S. — period. If you want community, nightlife, brunch, and the chance of meeting your next situationship, Atlanta is that girl.
The Georgian Terrace – Historic hotel near Midtown’s gay nightlife.
The W Atlanta – Midtown – Stylish, youthful, and super gay-welcoming.
Hotel Clermont – Trendy queer-positive space with rooftop views.
The Starling Midtown – Chic hotel in the heart of Atlanta’s LGBTQ+ hub.
24. New Orleans, USA — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
New Orleans, Louisiana, USA
Warm, cultural, musical, spiritual — and the queer community is strong. Perfect for solo travelers who want a soulful trip.
The Barnett, part of JdV by Hyatt– Trendy, creative, and very LGBTQ-friendly.
The Saint Hotel – Stylish boutique hotel with nightlife flair.
Hotel Monteleone – Historic queer-welcoming hotel in the French Quarter.
Virgin Hotels New Orleans – Modern, playful, and popular with LGBTQ+ visitors.
25. Toronto, Canada — ★★★★☆ Soft Life Approved
Toronto, Canada
Clean, progressive, diverse, and extremely welcoming. Toronto is a safe, social option for Black gay men who want culture without chaos.
The Anndore House - JDV by Hyatt– Stylish and steps from Church-Wellesley Village.
Gladstone House – Artsy, queer-inclusive boutique stay.
The Broadview Hotel – Sexy, design-forward, and inclusive.
Chelsea Hotel Toronto – Affordable and LGBTQ-friendly with great amenities.
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